Nice Guy's finish last

What a crazy topic to discuss, with all of the emotions and thought that get poured into it on a daily basis, however, i feel that i am more than qualified to discuss it.I confess that often at times i am the nice guy. In my writ 101 class our professor showed us an article from CNN, about the whole good vs. Bad mentality when it comes to male dominance and relationships. The article told all of the nice guys out there that they need to be more assertive or either find a nice porno and a nice brand of lotion in a nutshell(pardon the crudeness). But the article did tell of ways that nice guys can change and become better so that they can find the right one and keep them. This article spoke to me because I found myself being the nice guy far too often, in fact it happened with the last girl i was talking to, but she was just stuck in herself so instead of even being in the friend zone she thought she could use me and be done, but revenge is a dish best served cold, and a whole other subject.But with that i found the motivation to be extremely careful of my way with women and girls, because there is a difference, that as nothing to do with age. I know the whole game,front to back,i know when and when not to show love, or attentions and all, my only problem that may classify me as a nice guy is the whole availability. I often find myself willing to do whatever for girls, and at the drop of a dime. because of this, i often found myself taken advantage of. But with this revelation, i found that i don't want to be the bad boy that girls go after, but a more formidable nice guy and better equipped when it comes to hooking and keeping them. i used to feel like i was hitch, from that movie seeing how i was able to fix and mend other people hearts but never able to do it for my own,which was because i never took the time to pay attention to the true message in it, which was that we cant force ourselves to be somebody else but we can dig deep enough to find the person who we know we are and figure out how to present them to the world.